Saturday, April 30, 2011

Authentic Connections

There is something very special that happens when you truly connect with another human being in a genuine encounter.

Have you ever noticed how many people stand in line, walk down the street or even go into the restroom taking on their phones or listening to their IPods? What is so important? How did we ever get along without cell phones and IPods?


It’s also amazing to see how many people who are together texting each other, while they are in the same room. Is this crazy or what? Have we forgotten how to talk to each other without an electronic device? Connecting with each other and building authentic relationships seems like a lost art form.  

How do we then build authentic and lasting relationships?

  • Be who you are – Don’t be afraid to be yourself. No pretense.
  • Be approachable – Smile and say, “Hello,” or, “Good morning!” This is so simple, but few do it with any authenticity.
  • Be interested in others – spend less time talking about yourself and more time listening to others.

If we can break down the barriers that prevent us from connecting and building trusting relationships, there is no telling how our world could change.

When was the last time you really connected with someone in an authentic way? How did it affect you?

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